@Suzianne saidYou keep confusing ‘different from the norm’ with ‘wrong or inferior’. ‘Aberrant’ doesn’t mean ‘evil’; it means departing from what is usual. And tolerance doesn’t require me to call everything normal, admirable, or appropriate for childreb children. I can respect someone’s right to live differently while disagreeing with them. That’s called tolerance,
Ummmmm, let me take a stab at this... Because you're intolerant?
And 'aberrant'?? Are you serious? Nothing about me is aberrant. It is MY 'norm'.
Same to be said of others. Whatever they do is not 'aberrant'. It is their 'norm'.
Except maybe supporting Donald Trump in an era where the economy sucks and we're in an unnecessary war. Most of the country disagrees ...[text shortened]... t the 'aberrant' ones. You want to improve the world? Try being just a little bit less intolerant.
The word aberrant ‘aberrant’ is not synonymous with ‘bad’ or ‘unacceptable.’ That isn’t what the word means. It means something that differs from what is usual or considered the norm. Something can be aberrant from the norm without the people involved being inferior, immoral, or deserving mistreatment.
I can understand your opinion, given that you did not even know what the definition of respect is, as exhibited in earlier posts
@AverageJoe1 saidI don't think it was at a school, but yes I said it was OK because their parents brought them.
Man, you have to define what exposed to diversity means. I don’t wanna waste my time coming at it from the other side, because I could think of a lot of diverse things that you would not expose your child to. Give it a rest.
Were you not one of those people that OK’d grown men going to kindergartners and putting on a drag show? I would never expose my child to something like that.
Well, yes, or no ?
What you or I would do is irrelevant.
@AverageJoe1 saidhttps://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/08/15/32-of-americans-have-a-tattoo-including-22-who-have-more-than-one/
OK, but I swear to my post. Don’t know any of them.
I did not grow grow up around military people, and was not involved in military. If you must know, sleepwalking kept me out.!! I was 1Y.
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@AverageJoe1 saidYou appreciate 'aberrance' has an inbuilt judgement yes? That the person labelled aberrant has, by the very definition, strayed from the right path, and not only behaved differently, but unacceptably.
I’ll bite. Anyone who is not normal is aberrant. You could probably look that up. If a man wakes up today and says I am a girl now he is aberrant. I would like for you to disagree with me on that and tell me why you disagree…. be a good debater or not be a good debater.
Your choice. The floor is open.
Why so judgy?
Edit: Insecurity?
@no1marauder saidLoser post. Explained:
I don't think it was at a school, but yes I said it was OK because their parents brought them.
What you or I would do is irrelevant.
The ISSUE: DO YOU think it is a good idea to expose any kids, no matter who they belong to (whatever race ...tip of the hat to Suzianne.., creed or culture) to grown men showboating in the MANNER THAT THEY DO???
There is no qualification about input of parents. Some may be orphans. No parents.
You use the same poor logic here that you have when I asked what YOU think regarding men competing against women, boys competing against girls. You answered , 'well, it depends on'..........the question depends on nothing. There were no qualifications. Boy's body against a girl's body. Killed you on that one, too.
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@Ghost-of-a-Duke saidYes, ‘aberrant’ is a judgment. I was making a judgment about behavior, not declaring the people themselves worthlesss. You seem to think tolerance means suspending judgment altogether. I don’t. I can tolerate your right to livve differently while still thinking some things are wrong, unhealthy, inappropriate, or outside the norm. And ‘insecurity?’ isn’t an argument. It is it’s just a psychological label you’re putting on me because you don’t like my conclusion. So back at ya about insecurity.
You appreciate 'aberrance' has an inbuilt judgement yes? That the person labelled aberrant has, by the very definition, strayed from the right path, and not only behaved differently, but unacceptably.
Why so judgy?
Edit: Insecurity?
Libs, get with it. Tell us what you mean about people that decide that they want to be another sex when they wake up in the morning. Or maybe you use the word gender. Are they secure?
@AverageJoe1 saidYou are very simple minded and think in simple terms.
Loser post. Explained:
The ISSUE: DO YOU think it is a good idea to expose any kids, no matter who they belong to (whatever race ...tip of the hat to Suzianne.., creed or culture) to grown men showboating in the MANNER THAT THEY DO???
There is no qualification about input of parents. Some may be orphans. No parents.
You use the same poor logic here that y ...[text shortened]... ing. There were no qualifications. Boy's body against a girl's body. Killed you on that one, too.
Like most children.
@AverageJoe1 saidWhy are you soooooooooooooooooooo worried about what other people do with their personal lives?
Yes, ‘aberrant’ is a judgment. I was making a judgment about behavior, not declaring the people themselves worthlesss. You seem to think tolerance means suspending judgment altogether. I don’t. I can tolerate your right to livve differently while still thinking some things are wrong, unhealthy, inappropriate, or outside the norm. And ‘insecurity?’ isn’t an argument. It i ...[text shortened]... be another sex when they wake up in the morning. Or maybe you use the word gender. Are they secure?
MYOFB.
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@AverageJoe1 saidDepends on what you mean by 'decide. '
Yes, ‘aberrant’ is a judgment. I was making a judgment about behavior, not declaring the people themselves worthlesss. You seem to think tolerance means suspending judgment altogether. I don’t. I can tolerate your right to livve differently while still thinking some things are wrong, unhealthy, inappropriate, or outside the norm. And ‘insecurity?’ isn’t an argument. It i ...[text shortened]... be another sex when they wake up in the morning. Or maybe you use the word gender. Are they secure?
I may wake up one morning and decide I want to have toast for breakfast. Now, I'm not an authority on this topic, but I imagine it is not the same process for somebody identifying as the opposite sex/gender. I imagine it is less a 'decision' and more a feeling at the very core of their being. (And probably one that has been there for a long time).
@Ghost-of-a-Duke saidToo bad for them. It is their problem. Coulda been me, right. But, it is not OUR problem. They find a path, not BOTHER other people, like bothering naked girls in a bathroom, or screaming a bull horn in my face, saying 'Look at me'. Contrary to suzianne, they are not my brothers. And I owe them nothing, they have a life, I have one. I don't push mine on anyone. Do you?
Depends on what you mean by 'decide. '
I may wake up one morning and decide I want to have toast for breakfast. Now, I'm not an authority on this topic, but I imagine it is not the same process for somebody identifying as the opposite sex/gender. I imagine it is less a 'decision' and more a feeling at the very core of their being. (And probably one that has been there for a long time).
Why y'all keep wrriting about them? Is it because they want to crash our girls' basketball courts or swim competitions? Can you tell us why y'all write about these people?
And praytell what has their 'identifying' ( I do not know what that means) got to do with me or the guy on subway reading his paper? This AM I sipped my coffee and said, 'Ha, I feel like an Argentenian', I love coffee! I will put on a latin american hat! "" See? It has nothing to do with you that I do that. NOW you get it!!
@no1marauder saidYou are writing about me again. What about the issue
Why are you soooooooooooooooooooo worried about what other people do with their personal lives?
MYOFB.
Quite Contrare’, you ask why? The ‘ why ‘ is why you think I should even think about those people, I care not about them. Here I am avoiding them , and you’re telling me that I am making them my business.?????????
Hahahaha Unbelievable.
@AverageJoe1 saidI get that your claim to be tolerant is a little exaggerated.
Too bad for them. It is their problem. Coulda been me, right. But, it is not OUR problem. They find a path, not BOTHER other people, like bothering naked girls in a bathroom, or screaming a bull horn in my face, saying 'Look at me'. Contrary to suzianne, they are not my brothers. And I owe them nothing, they have a life, I have one. I don't push mine on anyone. Do ...[text shortened]... t on a latin american hat! "" See? It has nothing to do with you that I do that. NOW you get it!!
You made a flippant comment about waking up one morning and deciding they were a different sex. This is so naïve it beggars belief. Is your capacity for understanding that everything we are in life is a calculated decision? That we can choose to be something we are not?
Can I, for example, as an atheist, just decide one morning to believe in God?
@AverageJoe1 saidYou're the one who keeps "writing about them" in thread after thread. And always with positions that insist the government do something that reduces their freedoms.
Too bad for them. It is their problem. Coulda been me, right. But, it is not OUR problem. They find a path, not BOTHER other people, like bothering naked girls in a bathroom, or screaming a bull horn in my face, saying 'Look at me'. Contrary to suzianne, they are not my brothers. And I owe them nothing, they have a life, I have one. I don't push mine on anyone. Do ...[text shortened]... t on a latin american hat! "" See? It has nothing to do with you that I do that. NOW you get it!!
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@Ghost-of-a-Duke saidDon' t get gist of religion, atheist, maybe another thread, man. OR a better analogy. But who needs an analogy for this?
I get that your claim to be tolerant is a little exaggerated.
You made a flippant comment about waking up one morning and deciding they were a different sex. This is so naïve it beggars belief. Is your capacity for understanding that everything we are in life is a calculated decision? That we can choose to be something we are not?
Can I, for example, as an atheist, just decide one morning to believe in God?
Please correct me if I am wrong. Have not posters here condoned that a man can decide that that he IS a woman, or that he IDENTIFIES as a woman, and move through society in that guise? I think they have?
So, given that scenario, can a man, I am just asking, do that and 'change back' , in and out, to being a man.....can he go chameleon-like depending on his whim? I am sorry, and I am indeed NOT being flippant.
Let me add that a person can sincerely decide that forever he will dress and assume the nature of a woman. However, a person can 'do it for fun'. Who will be the judge on how to treat that second guy? When does a person 'qualify', and when does he not": I am not asking for confirmation, asI am oblivious to it and will remain so, ......I am asking to see how y'all think.
Let us work that out, and then have a real discussion after settling on the nature of this, the boundaries thereof. A good discussion.
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@no1marauder saidJust who brought up this languishing topic. I know nothing about them, all I see is megaphones, and all I hear is screeching. I have written, yes, about creatures. Not about the topic so near and dear to you, the various sexes and genders!!!!!! Jesus H.
You're the one who keeps "writing about them" in thread after thread. And always with positions that insist the government do something that reduces their freedoms.
Tell me, when they mega-phone, are they yelling at each other, or at passers-by? If passers by, what is the gist of their 'message'. This is the crux of AvJoe's message. Couch your answer carefully, as to say it is at the passsers-by is to say that they are in the face of them, and of me. And my children. Leave us a alone, I will say.